The Ordeal of a Female Unijos Student With Her Male Lecturer..

I am going to post this story the way Precious sent it in.

 

Hello Frank 

 Fellow blog readers my name is Precious I am 23 YR OLD. I am a student of the University of Jos and I am in 300 Level. I decided not to add my Department to hide and save myself from further abuse and harassment from this lecturer that has being disturbing my life in Unijos since the day I got admission into the University.

 I never believed that what we watch in Nollywood ( Nigeria home videos) is actually happening on our campuses and happening to me and many other female students. I never wanted to come out to tell the world my ordeal as a female student of University of Jos.

It all started when I came for my academics clearance/registration at the Main Campus of University and this lecturer happens to be from my department which I later got to know.  He was all flirting with me with his body language and especially the way he was looking at me when he was registering me. I never suspected anything and never read meaning into his actions.

After two days of hectic registration process, I was in my Naraguta hostel room when I received a call from a strange number. When I picked the call and I asked who was on the line; to my greatest surprise he told me his name and it happened to be my lecturer. The first question that came out of my mouth was “I hope all is well sir? He said all was well but just that I didn’t do my registration properly and I should be in school first thing the next day. I wondered how he got my number so I decided to ask him and he said he went through my file and got my mobile number. Before he ended the call appreciated him for calling to inform me that my registration was not properly done.

The next day I woke up as early as 5:00am to get set for school that morning. After preparing I happen to get to school that morning at around 7:30am and as usual I had to wait for the staffs that are in the habit of coming late to attend to students. On that day, they came for the clearance/registration by 9:30am. When I finally got to meet him for the correction  that was by 3:00pm because each time I meet him , he will say I should please exercise  patience, when he brought  out my file I got to realize that  nothing was wrong will my registration. When I told him, he said I should please pardon him it was a mistake.

He started calling me every night and day to find out how I was doing. He was showing me care and I didn’t read meaning into it because I just felt he was just being a nice person to me. This was happening before we resumed lectures in my department.

When lectures commenced fully on one faithful Monday morning we were all in class waiting for the lecturer to come in for the lecture. Before he walked in, I was busy with my phone but when the class became very quiet I realized that the lecturer is in class when I raised my head up to my greatest surprise he was the lecturer standing in front of the class. He introduced himself to the class and asked us to introduce ourselves and after the introduction he introduced the course in brief.

After the class, I got a message from him that I should come to the department and see him; I left the school Library immediately to meet up with him at the department. When I met him, he said he wanted to show me his office. When we got to the office, he invited me in and offered me a seat. He encouraged me to take my studies seriously and never let anything distract me from achieving my goals and dreams in life. After all the encouraging words I thanked him and begged to take my leave.

He formed it a habit to be calling me every day and inviting me to his office. Yeah to be sincere he is a nice guy to be with *winks*. Everything started changing between us when he began to asked too personal question and make every effort to get intimate with me. When I started feeling uncomfortable with him I decided to create a little distance between us. Yeah he later noticed that I was creating distance between us and he asked if something was wrong but I didn’t give him a definite answer.

On one faithful Friday I still remember that day like my date of birth he invited me into his office as usual but this time around the department was virtually deserted by students and lecturers. When we got into his office I sat down as usual and we were discussing not until he changed the topic and started talking about sex. He asked me if I was a virgin but I declined to answer that question. At this time I started feeling very uncomfortable and I told him to please change the topic of discussion that I was not comfortable but he continued. I decided to stand and leave the office but when I got to the door, the door was locked. I begged him to open the door so he stood up from his seat then I realize that I was in big sh**t because his DICK was fully erect and was about to force it way out from his trouser. He came close to me and violently grabbed me and drew me closer to himself that I could feel his erected Dick. I started struggling to get out of his grip. Before I knew it he pushed me to the wall and grabbed my Virgin breast yes I said my virgin breast because then I was still a virgin. I almost gave in because he was softly touching and romancing  my nipples and that feeling was great it was like paradise or cloud 9 I must confess*winks*.

He later graduated downwards and was touching my p***y now I totally lost it and I wanted it. Yeah Most of you will be thinking that he succeeded. I got back to my senses when he tried to pull down my pant. Then his grip was not tight and I pushed him away. Then immediately I started crying and begging to let me go. When I looked at his trouser he has released already. He begged me to play with his D**K which I declined and I threatened to scream if he does not open the door for me. After a while he reluctantly opened the door.

After this ugly incident, I started avoiding him totally. I stopped picking his calls, coming to his office or chatting with him on whatsapp. After a while I decided to talk to a sister in my fellowship who is also in my department. She advised me to flee away from him that he is a DOG who has slept with most girls in the department and the worst part of it is that he is a married man with two lovely kids.  Then I knew that I was in a big shit.

This got so serious that he decided to start threatening to fail me if I don’t give in to his demands. To prove to me that he was serious about it, he gave a test which I wrote and was expecting to score a good grade, but to my greatest surprise when he gave my class representative  the script to distribute mine was not there so I decided to go his office to tell him that I couldn’t find my script. The reply I got from him was that I was not in class so I didn’t write his test and that the test was over 30. I told him to check the attendance that my name is on it but he vehemently refused. After a while he said he knows what to do but only if I am willing to give in to his sexual demands. After begging I angrily left his office.

Exactly two weeks to exams, I got his text message that I should meet him at one FINA HOTEL located opposite St Murumba College Jos. That when I get there I should come straight to ROOM 5 that he is waiting for me and failure to come means I am going to carryover his course.

Before the exams, I made sure I read his course very well just not to have any reason to fail the course. After my thorough preparation for his course when the result came out he gave me a carryover just as promised. I walked to his office with tears running down my chicks like a running stream but he bounced me out.

Fellow blog readers as I am talking to you know I am still carrying over two of his course and I am in my 300 level and he is taking 2 courses this level. The last thing he told me that is disturbing now is that he is going to see to it that he supervises my project.

 Seriously I don’t know what to do about this man that has being a pest in my life for over 3 yr. I am confused.  I don’t know who to report him to. I am scared that I might not graduate with my course mate.

PLEASE WHAT SHOULD I DO?

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